1)

Why does the Torah use the expression "Bein Ish le'Ishto"?

1.

Ramban (citing Nedarim, 79b) and R. Bachye: It teaches us that, in addition to Nedarim that cause his wife suffering, 1 a husband 2 may also annul Nedarim that adversly affect their marital relationship. 3 4


1

Refer to 30:14:1:1.

2

Ramban: The Sifri and Yerushalmi say that the same applies to a father annulling his daughter's vows. Refer to 30:17:151:1.

3

Ramban: Such as a Neder not to wear make-up or to withhold intimacy from him.

4

R. Bachye maintains that this is actually a Kal va?Chomer from Nidrei Inuy Nefesh, since she is Meshubad (obligated) to her husband.

2)

What are the ramifications of the comparison between "Ish le'Ishto" and "Av le'Bito"?

1.

Ramban (in Hilchos Nedarim), R. Bachye (citing the Sifri #1 and Yerushalmi Nedarim, 11:1): It teaches us that a father, like a husband, can only annul Nedarim that are either Inuy Nefesh or Beino le'Veinah. 1

2.

Sifri #2: It compares one to the other regarding all the details that the Pesukim above to teach us that whatever is written by one applies to the other. 2 .

3.

Nedarim, 68a: It teaches us that the father of a Na'arah Me'urasah must annul the Nedarim of his daughter together with the Arus for the Neder to be annuled. 3


1

See Torah Temimah, note 90. This limitation for a father applies only to Nedarim which the father annuls together with the Arus), but he can annul all the Nedarim of a Penuyah. See Me'iri (Nedarim 79a). See also R. Bachye and Torah Temimah note 90, citing the Rambam.

2

See Torah Temimah, note 89.

3

According to the opinion that Pasuk 7 is referring to marriage. Refer to 30:7:1:2.

3)

What are the implications of "bi'Ne'urehah Beis Avihah"?

1.

Rashi (in Pasuk 9): Refer to 30:9:1:1.

2.

Targum Yonasan: It teaches us that even when she is a Na'arah, her father can annul her Nedarim, as long as she is under his jurisdiction, but not once she is married. 1

3.

Kesuvos, 46b: It implies that a father has rights over his daughter as regards the money of her Kidushin, her findings and whatever she produces with her hands, as the Torah writes "bi'Ne'ureha Beis Aviha" - all the benefits of her youth belong to her father'. 2

4.

Kesuvos, 47a: It implies that a Na'arah is under the jurisdiction of her father 3 as regards annuling her Nedarim.

5.

Nedarim, 70a: It implies that in the event that the father of the Arusah dies, she does ot enter the jurisdiction of the Arus, and he cannot annul the Nedarim of the Arusah on his own.


1

Refer to 12:1:1. See also Torah Temimah, note 91.

2

See Torah Temimah, note 90.

3

And not only a Ketanah. See Torah Temimah, note 92.

4)

?bi?Ne?urehah Beis Avihah?. At what age does a girl become a Na?arah.

1.

Ba?al ha?Turim: At the age of twelve, as hinted in the word ?bi?Ne?urehah? - the letters of which spell ?Na?arah Yud-Beis?.

5)

The Sifri and Yerushalmi learn from "Bein Ish le'Ishto Bein Av le'Bito" that, just like a husband annuls only Nedarim of Inuy Nefesh, or Beino le'Veinah (that affect intimacy), also a father. How is 'Beino le'Veinah' applicable to a father?

1.

Refer to 30:17:1:1, notes 2 & 3.

2.

Keser ha'Melech (Hilchos Nedarim 12:1): 'Beino le'Veinah' includes where she she forbids her husband father to benefit from her work.

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