Why does the Pasuk begin with the words, "Hi Mutzeis" (she was being taken out to be burned- which was the obvious next step)?
Seforno: To teach us that Tamar was as tough as a lion, in that, even in that eleventh hour, when all seemed lost, she did not lose her composure, and fended for herself with determination. 1
Riva (citing R. Chananel): "Mutzeis" is written Chaser (without an Alef). 2 This this an expression of kindling - to teach us that it is better to be burned than to humiliate someone.
See also Ba'al ha'Turim.
Riva: In all correct texts it is written with an Alef, but the Alef is silent, unlike the verse "k'Motze'eis Shalom" (Shir ha'Shirim 8:10), in which the 'Tzeirei' is pronounced under the Alef. Minchas Shai - The Aruch's text in Bava Metzia (59a) said that we pronounce it as if there were no Alef; most of his Perushim are from R. Chananel.
Why did Tamar not confront Yehudah directly, and announce that it was from him that she was pregnant?
Rashi, Rashbam and Targum Yonasan: She declined to present Yehudah with the three articles 1 and confront him directly, in order not to embarrass him in public. 2
According to Targum Yonasan, she was initially unable to find them, until, after praying fervently to Hashem, promising Him that, if He would help her to find the three 'witnesses,' she would supply Him with three holy men, who would sanctify His Name by entering a burning furnace in the valley of Dura (Daniel 3). At which point, Hashem signaled to Michael to show her where they were. Sotah 10b - After she found the Simanim, Samael (the Mal'ach of Eisav) took them away, and Gavri'el came and brought them back. (See Torah Temimah, note 27.)
Rashi cites Sotah 10b: 'It is preferable to allow oneself to be cast into a burning furnace, than to shame one's friend in public!' See Torah Temimah note 29. Moshav Zekenim (to 38:24) - Sereifah is through pouring molten lead down the throat. Beis Din does not put the person in a furnace! This requires investigation.
What is the significance of the phrase, "Haker Na"?
Targum Yonasan, Hadar Zekenim, Da'as Zekenim (to 37:32): This was 'Midah k'Neged Midah;' because he had used exactly the same expression, when showing his father Yosef's blood-stained robe. 1
See above, Bereishis 37:32.
Why did Tamar add the word "Na"?
Rashi: She was pleading with Yehudah to recognize Hashem, 1 and to save three people (herself and her two unborn twins) from death. 2
Targum Yonasan: She was pleading with Hashem to put in Yehudah's heart to acknowledge that the three articles were indeed his.
Ha'amek Davar: Tamar made two claims. Her first was that she had Bi'ah with a distinguished man who has such Kelim, 3 like yourself - do not think that I was Mezanah with a lowlife! This is not so disgraceful to you. 4 Further, please admit that it was you.
See also Ba'al ha'Turim. Sotah 10b - She was pleading with Yehudah to recognize Hashem, and not to hide his eyes from her. See Torah Temimah.
Da'as Zekenim (to 38:26): Because Yehudah saved one (Yosef) from a pit and three from a fire, Hashem similarly saved his descendants - Daniel from a pit, and Chananyah, Misha'el and Azaryah from a fire (Daniel 3,6).
If Yehudah would not admit that they are his, how could he explain why believes her to overturn execution? He could say that he recognizes the owner; he would not lend or sell such Kelim - how else would she have them? (PF)
What was Yehudah's initial reaction to Tamar's pleas?
Targum Yonasan: Yehudah figured that it is better to be put to shame in this passing world, than in front of his fathers in the everlasting World to Come, and that it is preferable to be burned in a physical fire (with reference to becoming embarrassed) than to be burned in the consuming fire of the World to Come. 1 And he acknowledged that Hashem was punishing him Midah k'Neged Midah. 2
Ohr Yechezkel, Darchei ha'Avodah (p.222): This was due to his Midah of Emes, which includes recognizing the eternity of the world to come, as opposed to the folly of this [fleeting] world.
Refer to 38:25:3:1, and 38:23:1:1. None of this is even hinted at in the Pasuk. [Sefer ha'Itim (end of #175) writes that Chazanim, who translated during Keri'as ha'Torah, used to add Midrashim to Targum Eretz Yisrael, and they became incorporated into the Targum. Subsequently, the compilation mistakenly became called Targum Yonasan. Yonasan himself did not translate the Torah, see Megilah 3a.]
QUESTIONS ON RASHI
Rashi writes: "It is better for a person to be thrown into a fiery furnace, so as not to humiliate his fellow in public." Why is this true?
Maharal (Chidushei Agados Vol. 2, p. 43, to Sotah 10b): While it is true that a fiery furnace can completely destroy the physical Guf; humiliation is even worse, for it displaces and ruins the Tzelem Elokim of his fellow. 1
Humiliation is called 'Halbanas Panim,' lit. 'making the face pale;' and the face is where Tzelem Elokim is supposed to be evident. Refer to 1:27:2.1:2 and the note there; and to 1:27:2.2:1. (CS)
Rashi writes: "... [She said] Please recognize your Creator, and do not destroy three souls!" Could Tamar have known (at three months) that she was bearing twins?
