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Why does it say Oyvi (singular)?
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Radak: This refers to Galyus, or Yishbi b'Nov (Radak Shmuel II, 22:18 - or perhaps Sha'ul).
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What is the difference between an Oyev and a Sonei?
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Malbim: A Sonei hates, but does not seek to harm. An Oyev hates and seeks to harm.
3)
What is the meaning of "Ki Amtzu"?
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Rashi (Shmuel II, 22:18): It is when [they were stronger than me].